Bates, Marilyn A., of Southbury, formerly of Bronxville, on Jan 18, 2010.  Wife of Elliott G. Bates.  Mother of Elizabeth Dinaro, Leslie Bates and Jennifer Sinonson.  Grandmother of 7.  Memorial Service, Christ Church of Bronxville on Saturday January 30 at 12:15 PM.  In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to The Lutheran Home, 990 Main St., North, Southbury, CT   06488.